Tuesday, June 10, 2014

june 10,2014
i grow hair very well in case some of you have not noticed--- it is one of the things i do best..
usually one of my neighbors who watches the cameras, notices my hair  looking too random and appears with scissors  to cut my hair in the driveway.
it is time she appeared again-- i did wash it and i am ready..JILLLLLLLLLLLL  !!

the reason i mention all this is... combs are cheap as is soap.. and i don't care how depressed you are if you can not get a comb thru your cleaned hair at least once a day, then i don't think you have the qualifications for one of our dogs.  you don't have to look like earlene with the perfect hairdoo at all times..  and i realize i skate pretty close to the uncombed wire... but clean is imperative.

 there is a practical aspect   being an animal person , i see some of these  teenagers ( and adults) where my first look leaves me wondering how many critters are living in that mess of hair.

plus the other aspect---when i had that 24" braid i worried constantly about getting it caught in a table saw or such..
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bottom line-- our dogs do a whale of a job---  but in our effort to choose them a  partner who will care for them in the manner to which they have become accustomed,..... we have to make uncomfortable judgements.  i find myself asking... if this person is so depressed that they rarely leave the house and can not  wash and comb their hair , will the dog help them... or will they drag the  dog  down with them ,

 if that makes me a snob-- then so be it.  i am looking out for the welfare of the dog.  
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i was thrilled  to have the rest of the dd written for me...
the first  cut and paste  is about wendy and her  partner hunter..  i don't remember how old hunter is... he is down there with our other 57 pound recipient..
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Dear Carlene,

Today I went on a field trip with the 2nd grade classes to the Maine Wildlife 
Park and I brought Wendy on the trip with dad also. We saw a Bald eagle, a 
golden eagle, pergrine falcon, deer, moose, fisher cat, porcupine, skunk, all 
animals In The wild of Maine.  Wendy did great and wasn't bothered by any of the 
animals.....except the smallest one if all.....the chipmunk! She is not a fan! 
She helped climb a trail that said restricted from wheelchairs and stroller, and 
it would have been hard to do it with my walker  but I had Wendy...my four wheel drive and didn't need to worry about! 
 The parents were asking where my walker was and I told them I had Wendy now! Over roots and rocks, soft areas, up and down hills was easy peasy! The kids in my class did 
great and there were other schools there that did ask to pet her, but I said she was working and she could not not be petted. One kid asked why I was petting her and I said she's mine and helps me.
 Some of the parents said they had  to stay away because they wanted to 
pet her so bad, but they knew the rules because their kids told them. 
Wendy rode on the bus with me, right next to me. She liked to have her paws on me!
 Still need to work on getting on and especially off, the bus because the last step is so big....it is just hard for me. She passed this test and I did ok too! 
We have been doing more at school and soon the summer will be here to be together all the time to get ready for fulltime at school in the fall. Thanks for letting me have her to help and make things easier! We will be down for a visit soon!
Love, Hunter & Wendy 
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and then our visitor's report
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Hi, Carlene,
 this is Clare, and I'm back in Oregon and missing everyone a lot!  
I wanted to mention that, although we all know that you don't run a tanning 
salon, one might say that you do have a weight loss program going on - I lost 4 
pounds last week, and it wasn't because I didn't eat pizza, pasta, coffee cake, 
birthday cake, cookies, candy, etc...must have been all the poop scooping, pee 
pad changing and holding of puppies' paws that did it!

I want to thank you again for letting me come.  While my husband was ill and 
dying of ALS, we found great joy and respite in watching SDP's dogs playing, 
eating and sleeping.  That experience triggered my desire to visit and be part 
of, if for only a few days, the amazing things that go on at Crazy Acres, and to 
begin to pay SDP back for the therapy we received - you have no idea how much 
SDP helped us keep going through those difficult days.  I have been watching for 
18 months or so, and I faithfully read the DD every morning, but being there is 
so different and so much 'realer' than watching.  When I arrived in time for 
Sunday Stew on June 1, I received such a warm welcome that I was overwhelmed.  
Everyone was kind and funny and welcoming, and CP Susan took me under her wing, 
introducing me to all the dogs as well as filling me in on what the workload was 
going to look like.  I'm so grateful to have met her...we laughed a lot, and she 
taught me what to look for and how to do whatever needed doing.  We've become 
friends and are talking about both of us coming back at some time next year so 
we can "play" together again.  I'm also glad I met Grace.  She is a 
wonder...being there, trying to help as she changes all the bedding while 11 
Crumbs try to assist is comical and no less than amazing...and she has the work 
ethic of at least 16 of the ablest people I've ever known, combined.  EVERYONE 
at SDP works HARD, but I was around Grace a lot, and trying to keep up with her 
with the pups, in the laundry, with the FB sisters, etc., etc., is a tough job.  
AND, she's a really nice person, too!

Little did I know that I'd end up being a day-shift carer for the Crumbs every 
day...it was tough duty, but someone had to do it.  Those pups and their Cookie 
Mom are permanently imprinted on my heart.  I'd never been part of a puppy pile 
before, which was heaven, and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute I spent with 
those babies (well, maybe "enjoyed"is the wrong adjective to use for some of 
those episodes of P, P, and V).  One of the CP's commented that I seemed so calm 
and peaceful...how can you NOT be calm and peaceful when you're surrounded by 
warm, sleepy, or not, cuddly, feisty puppies for extended periods of time?  I 
particularly got to bond with Bruce and Luke when they were in isolation.  When 
they're sick, and all you can do is keep them clean, fed and cuddled, it changes 
you.  I particularly enjoyed spoon-feeding baby food to Bruce and Luke...they 
liked it so much that it went everywhere, but we're all washable, aren't we.  I 
look forward to watching these little Crumbs grow up (it seemed like they were 
growing right before my eyes).  Next time I come, I'll be anxious to see what 
they're like, how their personalities have developed.  Victoria and Emily, the 
instigators a lot of the time, vocal Bruce, Luke and Jonah, who seem to be 
bulking up nicely, and all the rest, including little Sarge, are such 
substantial dogs, broad-chested, curious, snuggly...hopefully they'll all grow 
into being fine mobility or therapy dogs.  If they're fabulous failures, though, 
they'll always be FABULOUS, no matter what!

So, I'm grateful to you and to everyone at SDP, and to the CP's who supported me 
with their kind and funny comments...last week was one I'll never forget...I 
learned A LOT, my spirit was fed, and I will continue to spread the word about 
the miracles that are happening at SDP.
With love and hugs to all of you,
Clare Hawkins 

2 comments:

  1. Thanks Hunter & Wendy for sharing your field trip adventure with us! I hope you both have a wonderful summer and many more adventures and no chipmunks!

    Clare, so glad you were able to have a trip to Crazy Acres - lucky you. Thanks for sharing in such detail your visit and experience. I felt the joy come through.

    Thanks to Carlene, Hunter, Wendy & Clare for sharing these letters for they really start my day off on a wonderful, joyful, and loving note, which is so very much appreciated in this crazy, stressful world/job I live in :-).

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  2. Carlene, if you are a "snob" you are the most wonderful kind of snob. You only look out for the welfare of your babies and no one can fault you for that. Keep doing what you're doing. Hunter's letter shows what can be done for someone who has a need and Wendy if filling that need. Love all of you from afar.

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